optimize: new implementation of gonet transport

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Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 53.31325% with 155 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 59.81%. Comparing base (85cfe2e) to head (c2f065b).
Report is 1 commits behind head on develop.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
internal/mocks/bufiox/bufreader.go	0.00%	57 Missing ⚠️
pkg/remote/trans/gonet/trans_server.go	67.27%	17 Missing and 1 partial ⚠️
pkg/remote/connpool/long_pool.go	63.15%	13 Missing and 1 partial ⚠️
pkg/remote/trans/gonet/bytebuffer.go	73.46%	8 Missing and 5 partials ⚠️
internal/remote/conn_check.go	65.71%	8 Missing and 4 partials ⚠️
pkg/remote/trans/nphttp2/grpc/framer.go	54.54%	10 Missing ⚠️
pkg/remote/trans/gonet/dialer.go	0.00%	7 Missing ⚠️
pkg/remote/trans/nphttp2/server_handler.go	66.66%	5 Missing and 2 partials ⚠️
pkg/remote/trans/gonet/conn.go	70.00%	6 Missing ⚠️
internal/client/option.go	57.14%	2 Missing and 1 partial ⚠️
... and 3 more

Additional details and impacted files

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##           develop    #1767      +/-   ##
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+ Coverage    59.77%   59.81%   +0.04%     
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  Files          382      385       +3     
  Lines        34595    34784     +189     
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+ Hits         20679    20806     +127     
- Misses       12655    12703      +48     
- Partials      1261     1275      +14     

Flag	Coverage Δ
integration	47.75% <30.43%> (-0.10%)	⬇️
unit	50.18% <50.60%> (+0.04%)	⬆️

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