BLD: Avoid pybind11 2.13.3 due to Windows quoting bug

See pybind/pybind11#5300 (comment)

Author: QuLogic

pyproject.toml

@@ -49,7 +49,7 @@ requires-python = ">=3.9"
 dev = [
     "meson-python>=0.13.1",
     "numpy>=1.25",
-    "pybind11>=2.6",
+    "pybind11>=2.6,!=2.13.3",
     "setuptools_scm>=7",
     # Not required by us but setuptools_scm without a version, cso _if_
     # installed, then setuptools_scm 8 requires at least this version.
@@ -73,7 +73,7 @@ build-backend = "mesonpy"
 # Also keep in sync with optional dependencies above.
 requires = [
     "meson-python>=0.13.1",
-    "pybind11>=2.6",
+    "pybind11>=2.6,!=2.13.3",
     "setuptools_scm>=7",
 
     # Comments on numpy build requirement range: